Showing posts with label success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label success. Show all posts

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Be There

Woody Allen's formula for success is summarized in his words, "80% of success is showing up." Many years ago I heard a similar message condensed to two words: Be there.

Yesterday United Way was sponsoring its 4th Annual Legislation Breakfast. I had earlier responded with a yes RSVP that I would attend, but I was in a real time crunch because of a variety of assignments that needed to be completed. Yet, I felt prompted to attend. After all, it was only going to take a couple of hours out of my day.

The first person I saw as I entered the parking lot elevator was LeeAnne Linderman, a favorite person of mine who always inspires me just by being around her for a few minutes. After registering I sat down at an empty table as I hadn't come with anyone, and I didn't see anyone I knew. It wasn't long before I realized that the one conducting the meeting was Scott Anderson, the President and CEO of Zions Bank---someone with whom I had been playing phone tag as I had wanted to contact him about an idea. Being able to speak to him in person after the meeting instead of continuing to try to connect by phone was definitely a plus.

Already my investment of time was paying off! Then during the meeting, much to the surprise of both of us, Sandy Petersen, the Davis School District Assistant Superintendent, sat down beside me. She is an incredible educator and person who is committed to serving Hispanic learners. It was rejuvenating just to have the opportunity to visit with her for a few minutes.

Surprises aren't over, yet. At the end of the meeting someone else who had come in and sat down at my table spoke to me by name, and I realized it was Joan Dixon, another person who is an inspiration because of the great work she is doing with Hispanics in the Provo area.

Needless to say, it was well worth the two hour investment to follow the prompting to "show up" and to "be there"---over and above hearing what the legislators had to say!

Saturday, January 5, 2008

Learning From Statistics

It was the hardest class I had ever taken in my whole life--Statistics (or as some have called it--Sadistics).

Our professor, Dr. Sterling Hilton, told us that he had chosen the best textbook he could find. I believed him but even though I knew the words I was reading were English words, they might as well have been Japanese words. Then after reading the chapter 2-3 times I had to face a greater challenge--complete the assignments based on the difficult reading.

As I started to doubt my abilities and considered dropping the class Dr. Hilton gave me some wonderful advice. He said to concentrate on the learning and not the grade. Yet, as I contemplated his advice I realized that I could learn 50% and still fail the class. That was a daunting thought.

The irony to all this was that I truly loved the class. My husband questioned my sanity asking in disbelief, "How can you love a class that is so hard for you?!?" Why did I? One reason was because of the "A-ha" moments--times when the light finally dawned after an uphill struggle to understand. If I let my mind wonder for 2 seconds during class or while reading the textbook, I was lost. Therefore, I had to be continually engaged. As difficult as this was, it was also exhilarating as my mind was stretched to grasp a concept in the foreign language of statistics.

So I continued to love the class and follow Dr. Hilton's advice to focus on learning praying that I would at least pass the class but also being willing to retake it if needed. Well, the semester ended, and I had survived statistics. But had I passed? With trepidation and butterflies in my stomach I finally mustered up the courage to look at my grade. There are no words to describe what I felt as an "A-" stared back at me. No "A-" has ever meant so much to me.

There are so many valuable and life changing lessons I learned from this experience that have nothing to do with statistics, and I'll never be the same.

As we work with diverse learners who face at times challenges that seem to be insurmountable, we must remind them to focus on the learning and not to give up. The very fact that the road wasn't easy will make the eventual success that much sweeter and their character that much stronger.