Important Qualities Versus Rewarded Qualities

Quite a few years ago I learned the importance of writing down the qualities we would like to have and than acting as if we already had them. By doing this four things would happen: 1) We would gravitate to those experiences that would help us develop those qualities, 2) We would gravitate towards people who had those qualities, 3) People who had those qualities or at least valued them would gravitate towards us, and 4) People who did not value those qualities would dismiss and shun us if not outright fight against us.

Although I wrote qualities down many years ago (at least 25!) it has been a long time since I have reviewed them. Yet, they have played a significant role in shaping who I am. In spite of that, it is time I rewrite that list--or at least modify it--as there were some things left off that original list that as I've grown older I've realized are extremely important.

My new modified list statement would be: I am genuine, real, humble and teachable, kind, courteous, trustworthy, honest and a woman of integrity, optimistic, diligent, virtuous seeking only those things that are lovely and of good report and praiseworthy, discerning, patient, long suffering, loving, warm, approachable, compassionate, wise, radiant, curious and interested, respectful, dependable, hard working and a doer, visionary, a great conversationalist and a good communicator, loyal, committed, passionate, learned and knowledgeable, generous, full of faith and confidence, talented, empathetic, forgiving, bold and assertive, reverent, appreciative....and Christlike in all that I do and say with a willingness to sacrifice all that I have in order to serve others regardless of how small my circle of influence may be.

Needless to say I will not perfect these qualities during this earthly experience as it will take an eternity to do so. Yet, the very fact that these are my desires, I must be prepared for the four consequences mentioned earlier. Plus, it is important to recognize and accept the fact that these qualities are not the qualities the world applauds or rewards. In fact, the opposite could occur and even most likely will occur as history reveals what has happened to those who were well on their way to perfecting these qualities. Even Christ who was perfect in every way was trampled upon and crucified.